Help! My new rescue reptile is super shy - any advice?

Started by OP, 1/19/2026 06:00 PM
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1/19/2026 06:00 PM #1
Hey everyone, I just adopted a rescue bearded dragon yesterday and I'm already worried. He's been hiding in his cave non-stop, won't eat the veggies I offered, and flinches when I move near the tank. The rescue said he was surrendered because his previous owners didn't have time for him, but he seems terrified. Is this normal adjustment behavior or should I be doing something different? I really want to give him a good home but I'm stressing!
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1/19/2026 07:50 PM #2
Totally normal! Reptiles need WAY more adjustment time than mammals. My first rescue beardie took 2 weeks to even come out when I was in the room. Make sure his temps are right (basking spot 95-110F, cool side 75-85F), offer food but don't hover, and try talking softly near the tank so he gets used to your voice. Avoid handling for at least a week unless necessary. They're prey animals so hiding = feeling safe. Give him time!
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1/19/2026 09:20 PM #3
As a dog rescuer, I see this all the time with new pups - the 3-3-3 rule (3 days to decompress, 3 weeks to learn routine, 3 months to feel at home). Maybe reptiles have something similar? With my fosters, I always let them have a safe space they can retreat to. Sounds like you're doing great by being concerned! Maybe try putting a worn t-shirt near the tank so he gets used to your scent?
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1/19/2026 11:30 PM #4
I'm a dog mom but my cousin has reptiles! She always says new reptiles need 'quiet time' - no loud noises, no tapping the glass, minimal disturbances. Maybe try feeding at the same times daily to create routine? Also seconding BoxerBill's temp advice - improper temps can cause stress and appetite issues. If he doesn't eat in another day or two, might want to check with an exotic vet just in case.
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1/20/2026 01:28 AM #5
Big dog lover here - can't help much with reptile specifics but I know rescues need patience! My Great Dane rescue hid under the table for days. Sometimes just sitting near the enclosure reading or watching TV (quietly) helps them get comfortable with your presence without pressure. Good on you for rescuing! Keep us updated
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